剩者為王-觀後有感[有雷慎入]

-------[再強調一次，以下將有戲中劇情。尚未觀看者，有雷慎入]-----

**CAUTION: Some plots of the movie will be mentioned in the article. If you haven't seen the movie yet, please reconsider.**

昨天(Nov.21st)我和姊姊原本預計要去台中大遠百看剩者為王'，結果沒想到抵達後發現座位售光，只剩下3個1人座，沒有雙人連在一起的，不想等下一場太晚回家的我們，只好轉戰Tiger City。

As planned, my sister and I went to Top City for "the Last Woman Standing" movie on weekend, however, after we arrived, all seats were booked except of 3 single seats. Therefore, my sister and I decided to go Tiger City.

但因為平時去台中都搭公共交通工具，一時不知道從大遠百走到Tiger City要往那個方向走，所以跳上了計程車，一下子就到了，才發現計程車司機沒有跳表還直接說我們隨意給就好，因為很近。

Since we always take public transport to Taichung, and we didn’t have time to figure out the direction from Top City to Tiger City. So we jumped into the taxi and after 5 mins, we arrived. Just then we found that the driver didn’t start the meter and she said “It’s very near so you just pay whatever you want to pay.”

真的是好大心~~台中計程車起跳價85，我給100，她找我10塊錢，也就是這段路他只收我5塊錢！！

Wow! As you know, the taxi starting cost is TWD$85, I gave her 100 and she give me back 10$, which means, she only count this distance as $5.

以跑百米的速度衝上4樓，還好半小時候的場次還有位置。

購票後才能喘喘氣休息一下！

After paid, we ran as fast as “Turbo” to VieShow theatre on 4F. Glad there was still some seats left for afternoon sessions. Bought the ticket, finally can sit and rest a bit!

---------------好戲開始-------------

起承轉合在這部戲裡面可以看得一清二楚，唯獨最後”合”的部份可能會有人覺得很突然吧我想！

The four main parts: opening, developing, changing and concluding are very clear in this movie, which gives us a picture of the story. Though some people might feel the ending ended a little bit too sudden.

[起 Opening]

一開始就可以感受到盛媽媽咄咄逼人的氣勢和希望女兒都一把年紀，找個可以生活的對象就嫁出去的節奏。

From the beginning, you can feel the aggressive momentum from Ruxi’s mom and how hard she wants her daughter to get married asap.

但是好強的如曦並沒有放棄自己「對愛情的原則」。盛媽媽幫她找的相親對象，她也是愛理不理的。後來汪總一瞬失婚的事件中所說的一句”何必冒著把人生的質量從99降為0的風險”確實讓人深省。

But the Superwoman Ruxi didn’t give up her principle in LOVE. Regardless to the people her mom find for blind dating, she still keeps on her belief. Just like what PD. Wong said after she lost her marriage “Why should I risk my quality of life from 99 to 0 because of a ‘love’?”

在我的生活當中，也聽過幾個前輩甚至同輩說過類似的話，例如：現在交往是一回事，結婚之後如果變了怎麼辦?離婚怎麼辦? 又如"現在我自己賺錢自己養自己，我何必要多談戀愛來讓自己的生活變得心神不寧呢?”

It actually heard commonly nowadays. Many of my friends ever said similar things, such as: “We are doing well as bf/gf, but who knows once we got married? What if it changed? Should we divorce?” or “I can afford my life by my own income currently, how could I get in relationship and make myself distraught?”

確實，投資一定有風險，基金投資有賺有賠，申購前應詳閱公開說明書。但人生就這樣，最長也不過幾十年，有什麼理由不放手一搏地去嘗試呢?這樣的人生會有多無趣呢

True that there is always some risk in investing something, but if you rather having a boring life than getting some adventures, what you living for?

[承 Developing]

因為不可抗原因，不小心被迫住同一間房的時候，如曦和馬賽聊東聊西，聊到的幾句話。我實在是非常非常非常覺得這根本就是在說我嘛！

"是一個特別相信順其自然的人。"還有另一句"我以為你只是不敢，習慣等待，順其自然"。

Because of the irresistible reasons, Marseille and Ruxi were forced to stay in the same room one night. Listening the topics of their chat making me feel impressed, because what Marseille said about Ruxi is actually who I am…

“A person who believe in going with the flow.” And “I thought you just not dare to pursue, used to waiting and let it come naturally.”

之後轉移到為了愛的人不顧一切的章聿跟如曦在談論時說的那段話「我認識你那麼久，從來都沒有看你豁出去過，你有哪一次徹徹底底地知道自己想要什麼，拚的沒臉沒皮了，沒有尊嚴你都無所謂，你就是想要得到他。你有嗎? 其實我真的很想要看到你就這樣子去試一次，哪怕就一次。」

Zhang Yu, good friend of Ruxi, a girl who rather scarify herself for pursuing her love one. One of the sentences she said to Ruxi also calls for deep thought. “I’ve known you for this long time and I never see you stand out and fight for something, not even once! Have you even know what you want and fight for it regardless it might make you a shameless person? No, you never. And I really wish one day, I can see you try it once, and fight for it, even ONCE.”

我也好希望，有天，我也可以這樣子…但好難..好難(遠目

Well…I also wish one day, I can be like this…but yeah, it is difficult, isn’t it?

因為就如同如曦說的「我就是死要面子、自尊心特別重，我只要一發現對方沒有那個喜歡我了，我就會把這段感情判了個死刑。你說像我這樣的人，能順利談戀愛嗎?」確實，在生活中，如果我遇到這種情況，又好像對方有點退縮時，我就會立刻抽身，把這段宣判不可能。

Just as what Ruxi said in the film “I am a person who dead determined to save face with high self-esteem. Once I found the person isn’t that into me a little bit, I will instantly withdraw myself from this relationship and sentenced this relationship to death. For a person like me…is it possible to get in a relationship successfully?”

Indeed, in real life, if I am in this kind of situation, and I found the man retreats a bit, I will just end this relationship immediately.

看著如曦自己反覆練習說著"我喜歡你"這四個字的畫面，霎那間，我也才發現...原來我跟戲裡的如曦一樣....「我喜歡你」這四個字，我從來就沒有說過...

In the part that Ruxi practicing to say “I like you”, I just realized that…I’ve never say these 3 words neither…

[轉 Changing]

中間劇情因為發現盛媽媽生病而急轉直下，而在我看到她媽媽忘記她包包顏色的時候，我眼淚就已經在眼眶中了，因為我立刻就知道這是什麼病了。

之前在國外念書後工作打拼的我，之所以會回台灣的原因之一，也是因為我親愛的媽媽被診斷出有阿茲海默症。但只是輕微，雖無法痊癒，可吃藥物控制。

The movie came to a standstill in the middle with the ill of Ruxi’s mom. At this time, the tears are already in my eyes.

One of the reasons why I come back to Taiwan from overseas is the Alzheimer's disease of my mom. Thought it’s only minor, but it cannot be cured, only control it by taking medicines.

但大家也知道，老一輩的人總是不喜歡長期吃藥，現在媽媽也會時不時自己停藥，過一陣子才去領藥或是等我們發現才去領。

As we know, those elder people always refuse to take medicine for long time. Sometimes my mom would stop taking the medicines by herself until we found it.

現在，我發現，媽媽也會在一個小時內問我兩、三次她剛剛才問過的問題，而且完全沒發現她已經問過了。

Even now, I still can find that my mom asks me the same question twice or three times in an hour.

對我而言，我能做的就是陪伴與耐心。人家都問我，為什麼你在北部工作，但每周都要坐火車回台中啊? 我都只會回答，我要回去看家裡的狗狗貓貓阿~怕他們忘記我了！但其實我沒說、也不想說，我只是想多一點時間陪伴家人，尤其我從小就是單親家庭，媽媽是我的唯一。

For me, all I can do is to accompany her and be patience. Many of my colleagues and friends ask me why I work in Taipei but go back to Taichung’s home every week? I always make joke that I am afraid my dogs and cats will forget me. I didn’t say and I didn’t want to say that I just want to spend more time with family, with my lovely and only mom, who raised me up as single-parent mom.

因為媽媽病情的關係，如曦想圓媽媽的願，問了馬賽會不會娶她"不是將來、是現在。"這句話區區7個字，但其中隱含的情愫、擔憂、賭注，都意涵在其中。

Because of the disease of Ruxi’s mom, she wants to make her mom’s dream come true. She asked Marseille whether he can marry her “not in the future, but now.” There are only 6 words in this sentence, but it contains implied emotion, worries and bet. She was betting whether Marseille will say Yes.

就一位35歲的女孩來說，是，她確實需要一個以結婚為前提的戀愛，任何時光虛耗都是她的壓力。但對一位20.30的男人來說，正在事業穩定期，當然會想先闖一闖事業再回來談家庭。

For a 35 year-old woman, yes, she indeed needs a relationship with the premise of marriage. Any waste of time will become the pressure on her. However, for a man at 20, 30s, it’s a period of career stability, of course he would put marriage in the 2nd sequence and business at first.

說實在的，就我的角度看，都覺得這個壓力實在有點大....如曦這麼一問，實在令人進也不是、退也不是。但各位想想，這不免也令人深省，為何目前大眾對女孩子來說，年紀愈大就是剩女；對男孩子而言，年紀愈大就是黃金單身漢。

To be honest, in my point of view, this is actually pressured for Marseille to make any decision. But this is a good chance for us to review, how come in the society nowadays call a mid-aged single woman “left woman” but “golden bachelor” for a mid-aged single man. Isn’t that unfair?

雖就現實生活中，若這事情發生在我身上，只要那男孩是對的人，我應該....會堅持默默地等吧，等到他闖了一圈回來了，想定下來的那天，我會守護在他身邊。

Although in real life, if I am in this situation, I will just wait for the man once I know he is the RIGHT one. I will wait for him until the day he back with many memories in his adventures out there, I will stay beside him.

進入尾聲，本戲的最高潮處就是白醫生跟如曦在咖啡廳的對話，相親的戀情總是帶有點強迫性，如曦就是那種無法被強迫去喜歡一個人的女孩，或許…我也是這樣的女孩。

Blink-dating is actually a relationship with a little bit “force.” Ruxi is a girl who can’t force herself to like a person that she is not that into, which is very similar with me.

如曦爸爸(金士傑先生)的經典橋段「我希望她幸福，真真正正的幸福，能結一場沒有遺憾的婚禮，可以把她的手無怨無悔的放在另外一個人手中。對很多人來說愛情和婚姻不是百分之百對等的，這是她堅持很久的一個原則，作為父親就應該跟他一起守護。」

The climax comes with Ruxi’s conversation with Dr.Bai. “I hope she be happy, get the real happiness she looking for. Married to a no-regret marriage and hand out her hands to a person who really worth. For many people, marriage and love can’t be 100% equalized, but this is the principle her persists for this long time. As a father, I should support and guard it with her.”

從小父母離異，沒說過”爸爸”這個字的我，聽到這句話時，雖然現實生活中無法體會，但眼眶還是紅了。「她在我這裡，只能幸福，別的都不行。」盛爸爸這句話聽起來格外霸氣。

My parents divorced since I was very young, I’ve never called “father” once. When I heard this conversation, thought I can’t feel it that deep, but the tears are already filling my eyes. “She will only be happy once I am her father” said Ruxi’s father, which sounds particularly domineering.

[合 Concluding]

最後的結尾，有時光快轉後的驚喜。

到底如何~~~大家自己去電影院看吧！

There is a surprise when one year later, so do not hesitate, just hop into the theatre and watch this meaningful movie!

其實，在看這部電影預告片時，我就跟我姊說，舒淇某個氛圍有像安潔莉娜裘莉呢！但我姊說舒淇大大的眼睛帶著楚楚可憐的眼神，跟安潔莉娜裘莉有差。確實女強人姿態的保護色下，其實還是有位小女孩住在心中。

When watching the trailers of the Last Woman Standing, I said to my sister “Don’t you feel Shu-Qi looks like Angelina Jolie in some ways?” My sister then answered me “The difference is at the expression in Shu-Qi’s eyes. Shu-Qi’s eyes is more delicate and touching.” Indeed, under the protective coloration of a superwoman, there is still a girl inside the heart.

劇中飾演小男孩(?)的彭于晏，充分表現出劇中25歲男孩的俏皮可愛與衝勁，那帶有一點頑張的不定。真的是演什麼像什麼！上周回家才電影台看到黃飛鴻的重播，又給它看了一次，不得不佩服一個演員可以演一齣戲多學一個技能的天賦。這次不知道是不是學到”開關開開關”呢?(那到底是什麼東西，我根本看不懂啦！)

Eddie Peng plays the role of Marseille in this movie. He fully demonstrates the lovely and momentum of a 25 year-old “boy.” Eddie is really an actor who become the role when he is acting the role. I just watched again “Rise of the Legend” last weekend. I can’t stop but admiring Eddie, because he always can learn another new skill when acting a new drama. Though this time, the skill might be the game “close open open open close”(What the hell exactly is that!??! I can’t even understand in the movie.)

雖然說結尾我有一點點期待製作團隊的字幕都結束後，可以看到1分鐘出現如曦爸含淚跟白醫生說「有天她帶著男方回來說"就是他，這個人，我非他不嫁！"，我都能真真切切得想到了，有什麼理由不真真切切的等他實現。」的真實畫面，但結果是~~~沒有。

I was expecting a short video that Ruxi’s father said “one day, she will bring a man back and say ’it’s he! I won’t marry unless the bridegroom is he!’” after ending. But meh~ there’s no.

好吧！電影也是不能事事都太如人意，只好繼續期待下一步彭于晏的作品了！

另外一提，這部戲裡面我明顯的發現...中國的劇組都挑好瘦的配角，包括秘書、店員…等等都是。

好吧，那不多說了，我要來去運動減肥了。

OK~anyway, movies will not always develop following our thoughts, so yeah! Let’s wait for Eddie’s next work! BTW, I found that in this movie, all the actresses are all extreme skinny, including the secretary or even the sales of the flower shop…

Well, let’s call this movie review here, Ima go and work out to lose some weight now!

2015年11月13日-「剩者為王」一定要看！MUST watch 'the Last Woman Standing'

為了找到對的你，我選擇剩下自己。I left myself for the right you.

---22.11.2015-觀後有感at home---

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